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Fate

Destiny is a thing that ordinary people can change if they want to change. Since we cannot change our fate, we can only learn to change our mentality. I went to other places the day before yesterday and had lunch with a classmate. This classmate and I are both in the workplace and have the same position, but he is highly valued by the leaders. He is not high but has the weight. Every time we met, he was full of spring breeze and vigorous, which made us envy and was the pride of our classmates. After drinking for three rounds, my classmates began to complain. It turned out that he was highly appreciated and valued by the head of the company, and all the good things were in his charge, so he naturally lived freely. But now, the head of the company has changed, and the new head begins to use newcomers, the former trusted followers began to be idle, and even hit. Students are idle objects. From the previous social intercourse to the present one cup of tea and one report, the gap is large. It can be imagined that for a working man who is in the rising stage, combat enough to fatal. What happened to my classmates made me sigh with emotion. As a working man, what I fear most is being idle, excluded and even hit. My classmates first had smooth sailing and then suffered setbacks, while I didn’t have smooth sailing for ten years. In the eyes of many people, our career is full of sunshine and flowers, which is enviable. But only you know the pain, or only people with the same illness can understand it. Long-term depression will inevitably lead to old age, this is what many people call maturity. I started earlier than my classmates. I have been suffering for ten years. In ten years, I have learned to endure, but with a knife on the head of the word, the blade can not point to others, but to myself, therefore, it will always hurt yourself and bleed yourself. I am not surprised at the humiliation, and I am busy watching the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court; I have no intention to leave or stay, but I am slow to watch the clouds outside the sky. What a high level it is. Sometimes I think it is true, since we can, then we can only learn to change our mentality. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the 30th year of my WeChat era The year before last, my eunuch planned to buy a smartphone for him on his birthday. The main purpose was to teach them how to play WeChat, and let them… Comments on the Chinese version of “worry-free grocery store” Everyone moves towards a better life through his own efforts. The answer to the consultation letter is just encouraging an existing… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 14, 2018) January 14, 2018: Today, the temperature in Wujiang is relatively warm, not as cold as a few days ago. Yesterday and Today, Wu Jiang’s… Be a person who never stops growing up Teacher Lily coughed with a strong nasal tone when she was in yoga class. Maybe it’s uncomfortable, she has less demonstration action today,… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 13, 2018) January 13, 2018: Yesterday, my sister and nephew Little David didn’t come to the Dongwan village of jinjiaba where my mother and I stayed temporarily,… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 12, 2018) January 12, 2018: The day before yesterday, I said, “my mother will go to Kunshan tomorrow.” However, yesterday, my mother did not go to Kunshan…

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Men

In today’s social life, when it comes to men beating their wives, the first person who raises objections may not be women, but men will step forward: how can there be men beating their wives? It can be seen that in the eyes of the same sex, men who beat their wives have already been classified as different from others. What is the need to find a grandiose reason for men to beat their wives? This may temporarily be regarded as the progress of people’s thoughts: because it is no longer the time when men gathered together and recklessly exaggerated how to use domestic violence to demonstrate their status and authority. Abandoning the tradition that men are superior to women for thousands of years, in today’s society which advocates equality between men and women, women and men are exhausted for work, life, family and children. They also have pressure and distress, why should women be beaten when they return home? They tried their best to do what they should do. Did they lose their duty as a husband or a son, or forgot the trifles of the hall and kitchen? They may occasionally hear their complaints, but that is just a way for them to release their pressure. Smart men will guide and comfort their wives in time to ease their psychological state, then bring the greatest warmth to the family with their maternal power. However, after all, there will be a small number of men who can’t be called Smart. They will act as fast as their wives for a while. Not only do they have to compete with each other, but when they are in a hurry, even let the fist slap to speak. However, at the moment you use your fist, women use all their senses to deal with it. You can stand behind a woman for countless times as its patron saint, but at the moment you swing your fist, all the sense of security you brought to her will disappear, including the love you have given, it will be greatly reduced in her heart. The moment the fist fell down, the pain was on her body and the hatred was in her heart. In fact, it was you who carved a scar on yourself for no reason. First of all, even if they make up soon, the relationship between husband and wife will be cast a shadow because of such domestic violence. There will be such fear in women’s heart: if there will be quarrels in the future, will he still fight? Gradually, women have doubts about the sense of security that men can give her, and then shake their firm attitude towards marriage. At this time, do you personally think that men’s guarantee is persuasive in front of the facts? Secondly, the public opinions of relatives and friends. Now when facing the phenomenon of domestic violence, except for the woman who is really at fault, most of them will blame the man. Reasonable relatives and friends will take care of your face and give you some comfort appropriately, but after euphemism, you may only have to denounce: Your wife sacrificed her youth for you and this family, if you sacrifice what you own, how can you say that you just do it? Can’t you tolerate it? This is mere mortals domestic violence, public opinion words ultimately inseparable from home and children. If a famous man like Li Yang had such a thing, apart from fame and interest, it would rise the level of discussion, such as how foreign countries opposed domestic violence and contacted feminism. At this time, the effect of public opinion was not a joke. Li Yang was also hurt. Moreover, after using force, won’t you reflect on whether you should do it or not? As expected, it is your wife who has really reached the point where you are not allowed to do it by force, or do you expose the lack of quality and cultivation in the face of small family conflicts? The family is managed by heart, not by violence to put the wall of the heart into danger; Marriage is made to last with love and affection, not by violence to hide its original appearance; husband and wife grow up together with each other. It is not that husband and wife can move their fists without distracting! Indeed, male chauvinism can not be changed. After all, living under such a tradition, the culture of ancestors was influenced by them. But as a man living in the new era, can you bear all kinds of injuries after hitting your wife? Of course, if you think it doesn’t matter, you can try it! Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the 30th year of my WeChat era The year before last, my eunuch planned to buy a smartphone for him on his birthday. The main purpose was to teach them how to play WeChat, and let them… Comments on the Chinese version of “worry-free grocery store” Everyone moves towards a better life through his own efforts. The answer to the consultation letter is just encouraging an existing… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 14, 2018) January 14, 2018: Today, the temperature in Wujiang is relatively warm, not as cold as a few days ago. Yesterday and Today, Wu Jiang’s… Be a person who never stops growing up Teacher Lily coughed with a strong nasal tone when she was in yoga class. Maybe it’s uncomfortable, she has less demonstration action today,… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 13, 2018) January 13, 2018: Yesterday, my sister and nephew Little David didn’t come to the Dongwan village of jinjiaba where my mother and I stayed temporarily,… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 12, 2018) January 12, 2018: The day before yesterday, I said, “my mother will go to Kunshan tomorrow.” However, yesterday, my mother did not go to Kunshan…