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In this world, all living individuals have desires, including animals and plants. Let’s talk about plants. Grass and trees all have desires. Their desire is to absorb more sunshine and rain, and then blossom and bear fruit, leaving seeds, the most primitive desire for reproduction. Besides, animals have a little more desire than plants. They need to eat, wear, live, find mates and then reproduce. People have more Desires. Besides basic necessities of life, they also have more fun. Furthermore, they also have the desire to control rights and so on. In order to satisfy these desires, people constantly invent and create machines, guns and currencies. Desire, half of which is Angel, the other half is devil, once out of control, will lead people to evil. Desire promotes social progress, but it also breeds evil and becomes a disaster star to destroy order and civilization. The ancients said: people die for money, birds die for food. As the saying goes, people don’t have a heart. It has existed since ancient times that desire is hard to calm down, which is caused by desire. Zhu Zaiyu’s Sanqu “ten deficiencies” in Ming Dynasty wrote that only for hunger can we have food and clothes. Put it on lingluo, and look up and think the house is low. Build high buildings and buildings, but there are few beautiful wives in front of the bed. Yiquanquan went to the magistrate’s position and said that the official position was low. As soon as I climbed to the senior position of the cabinet, I thought every day to ascend the throne. One day, I would like to play chess in the South. Dong Bin played chess with him, and asked where was the ladder? The ladder was not made, the King of Hell issued a card to urge. If not this person deadline to, up to ladder also too low. Look at how ridiculous the man’s endless pursuit of desire described by sanqu is. If it weren’t for the timely licensing of the King of Hell, the uncontented person would have been the Jade Emperor on that day. Some people in life are like this. This desire is realized, and another desire begins to appear again, which goes round and round, accompanying people’s whole life. If a desire cannot be satisfied, it will be cooked like soup all day long. Imagine what fun is there in such a life? Therefore, the ancients said: The disaster is much greater than the greed, and the wealth is not full of contentment. Desire is the inherent nature of life. If there is desire, there will be emotional impulse. If you have emotional impulse, you must be moderate. The ancients controlled their desires through self-cultivation, and if they had feelings, they must have the function of restraint. In life, I feel uncomfortable when I have more social parties. If you know more people and have more things to do, the relationship will be complicated. Moderate, adjust the attitude of life, distinguish between desire and action. It is hard for people not to make mistakes, but they should keep their heads clear. Sober up, some mistakes are actually a kind of experience, for life and life, it is a kind of acquisition. What is temperance? In the complexity, find your own position and measure what you want with the standard you need, so that life will keep its original track, at least not out of control. What we need to do now and what we will do in the future is to maintain effective control over life so that we can do things correctly and do the right things. Why moderation? Some people need to maintain and some things need to be done, but they are never greedy, that is, they can’t do anything. Speaking of it, we should not only desire it, but also be able to resist it. Maybe this kind of life is relatively tiring, or it may lose self-expression. However, after all, the expediency should give way to the long-term solution. Only in this way can we realize everything we really want. The same is the desire of human beings. The flood is as fierce as a flood. Controlling and balancing will promote the growth of life. Or a passage in the Bible goes well: God has given you destiny, and you should not abandon it; He has established laws for you, and you should not surpass it; He prohibits you from doing many things, don’t offend it; He intentionally keeps silent about something. Don’t spend your energy exploring it. How to do moderation? Doing things smoothly, resolving disputes for others, sorting out thoughts and emotions, purifying the soul, repeatedly investigating and finding the key points, paying attention to self-needs while taking into account others’ wishes, being diligent in frugality, helping each other, etc, are says Isaac. Be conscientious, trustworthy, sincere and enthusiastic, and do things and treat others in your own way of doing things. Less thinking, less demanding others, less fearless invitation, make your mind comply with your true nature. Indeed, it is very difficult to be a man. After all, a moderate person is a person with awe. We respect the bottom line of the society, the truth, goodness and beauty of the world, and the gift of nature, so that we will not be suspended, down-to-earth, follow the Earth, and our heart is in the sky. In the face of desire, we might as well learn from Zeng Zi and reflect on it three times a day. We don’t abstinence or sex, and try our best to make desire suitable. The balance of desire is a good balance between biological desire and social desire, low-level desire and high-level desire. Biological desires such as material desire, financial desire and lust must be placed in a correct position and coordinated with their own living environment. At the same time, they are sagaciously and rationally restricted by social environment. As early as a few years ago, I said that I would stop seeing desire for virtue. To be more specific, in the aspect of interpersonal communication, we should communicate with each other in the heart and in a pure and moderate way. In the aspect of work and study, you should have sharp intuition, stable working condition and outstanding memory. In the aspect of wealth, we can gain profits from the circulating funds. Make friends with friends without affectation, and care for friends is considerate. In the aspect of healthy life, I am good at self-adjusting body functions and maintaining a healthy life and rules. More specifically, in life, ears listen to all kinds of sounds, eyes look good in all kinds of colors, nose wants to smell all kinds of fragrance, mouth likes to eat all kinds of delicious food. Voice, color and delicacy improve people’s desire. No matter what kind of people feel, they all have the same feeling, but in the face of voice, color and delicacy, their ways of expression are different, which is temperance. Temperance is a good living condition, not only in work, life and study, but also in eating and playing. Doing anything is the same. Many things have nothing to do with abstinence. Abstinence means don’t indulge in playing and falling down, don’t show off yourself, don’t talk nonsense and don’t lose your temper. Temperance is a kind of virtue. Through self-choice, we choose what we want to do or can’t do. People who can control can do something in work and life and even in all activities. In a word, being moderate all the time means truth, goodness and beauty. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the 30th year of my WeChat era The year before last, my eunuch planned to buy a smartphone for him on his birthday. The main purpose was to teach them how to play WeChat, and let them… Comments on the Chinese version of “worry-free grocery store” Everyone moves towards a better life through his own efforts. 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I remember that my mother often told me: when you were a little older, you saw teacher Zhou going to school and passing by my door every day. Do you want to ask teacher whether I am good at school? Then teacher Zhou will ask your mother to help you buy a schoolbag, and go to school when you grow up! At that time, I was looking forward to growing up quickly every day so that I could go to school with my elder brothers and sisters carrying schoolbags. At that time, I felt that it was the most beautiful thing to go to school. Now I am very moved to see the children in poor areas on the Internet, the pairs of eyes full of thirst for knowledge, some working hard in a very difficult environment for learning, especially the excellent children from poor families, even the children of the migrant workers who came to work outside are also very strong. Many of them are excellent in study and have strong self-management ability. Perhaps it is because the children of the poor have already taken charge of their families, and their parents are both dual workers, no one takes care of the children, so the children learn to wash and cook at an early age, and their life independence is very strong. However, many of our local children are expensive babies. They are really dressed and stretched out their hands to eat. They are really not good except for learning, and even some of them are poor in learning. Because of his dependence, his wings lacked the opportunity to exercise and could not fly. But how did this cause? When the child wanted to eat with spoon and chopsticks for the first time, we were afraid that he would scatter rice everywhere to save trouble. At first, the child insisted on coming by himself, but after several times, he also got used to being fed by someone; When the child was sweeping the floor for the first time, the child picked up the broom happily, but we would say beside him: the baby is dirty, you can’t clean it either. He took off the broom in the child’s hand and let the child stay obediently. The child gradually became accustomed to it. In the child’s impression, Labor would be dirty and the child did not need labor, labor is an adult’s business. One day when the child grows older, he will not be happy if you ask him to do this, nor will he be happy if you ask him to do that. For him, no matter what you ask him to do, he will not be happy, who can you blame for shouting at you for being too lazy to die? Family education is worth pondering. As soon as I entered the school gate this morning, I saw a lot of people around me from a long distance. I didn’t know what happened. When I entered, I saw a little girl cocking like a fish, and her mother was hitting her ass with a ruler, what if you don’t go to school like this? But the child still cried desperately while holding mother’s legs tightly with both hands, calling me to ask for mother. I want mother, and I don’t want to go to school. This doesn’t work. If a mother wants to have a mother’s business, children will always go to school. You see, other children are going to school happily. Let’s go, and we will also go to the classroom. A teacher persuaded me patiently, but the child still hugged my mother’s legs tightly. The more fierce the child was, the tighter the hug was. He just shouted that I wanted my mother, and I didn’t want to go to school. Later, Teacher REN grabbed him and dragged him into the classroom. However, he still cried incessantly, which made the class unable to have normal classes. It has been the third week since the beginning of school, and the child hasn’t got used to it yet. He still refuses to go to school and cries every day. The child’s personality is too strong, only because the condition is too good, some people don’t want to go to school, while some people want to go to school but don’t. Going to school seems to be an adult’s business, asking him to go to school. I went to the office to talk about the child with my colleague, who said that the child lived in her house, and the family loved her so much that everything depended on her, at that time, when I was in kindergarten, I cried every day. Once I cried, my parents took him back and didn’t let her go. Now I’m in grade one, I can’t let her go, but in the last two weeks, when the child cried, his grandfather took the child home and asked the child: did the teacher scold you? You said this kind of family education is good. I heard that the mother of the child hit the child today, and my colleague was so surprised that she said, “her mother has never hit her since she was a child, and she always depends on the child’s temperament. This is the extreme of education. Everything is in accordance with children. Now children just don’t want to go to school and rely on their mother at home. Parents now know that they hate iron and steel, and start to do it, but it is not too late to start to discipline them well, the child is only in the first grade, and the child has a strong plasticity of personality. But discipline needs a positive guidance, otherwise it will only backfire. You see how the child’s parents said to the child’s head teacher, he saw the child refused to go to school, crying every day to ask the head teacher, teacher, you scold my child’s wave? When I went home, I also asked my child what the teacher said to you today. Did you scold you? Is the teacher cruel to you? You said that the whole family was afraid that the teacher abused their children, and adults were not worried that the children were in school, which made the children even reluctant to go to school. Therefore, everything has its cause, and children cannot be blamed alone. What should I worry about? With so many children at school, can teachers treat your children badly? As a teacher, which teacher doesn’t want the students he teaches to be excellent? The excellence of students is his own glory! Education is the common responsibility of school, family and society, but family education is the first. The influence of family environment on children is very profound. Children have been influenced by such family environment since childhood, A good environment has a good influence on children, so parents are the first teachers of children. Parents should set an example for themselves, and teaching by example is more important than teaching by words. I hope that I can create a good family education environment for my children, and no more similar children will appear. There are such special cases every year. Maybe my wish is just a beautiful dream, but I believe it is good to have such a wish. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the 30th year of my WeChat era The year before last, my eunuch planned to buy a smartphone for him on his birthday. The main purpose was to teach them how to play WeChat, and let them… Comments on the Chinese version of “worry-free grocery store” Everyone moves towards a better life through his own efforts. The answer to the consultation letter is just encouraging an existing… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 14, 2018) January 14, 2018: Today, the temperature in Wujiang is relatively warm, not as cold as a few days ago. Yesterday and Today, Wu Jiang’s… Be a person who never stops growing up Teacher Lily coughed with a strong nasal tone when she was in yoga class. Maybe it’s uncomfortable, she has less demonstration action today,… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 13, 2018) January 13, 2018: Yesterday, my sister and nephew Little David didn’t come to the Dongwan village of jinjiaba where my mother and I stayed temporarily,… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 12, 2018) January 12, 2018: The day before yesterday, I said, “my mother will go to Kunshan tomorrow.” However, yesterday, my mother did not go to Kunshan…