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And Taoism

[Introduction] kindness and sincerity are a kind of spirit that positive and beautiful hearts need, and Confucianism, Taoism and Buddhism carry this spirit. Adhering to this spirit, the society is bound to be harmonious. Obviously, Confucianism, Taoism and Buddhism can lead people to good. The world is muddy, the belief is lacking, and there is no lack of blindness in the Daze, which inevitably leads to the dishomophonic tone of devaluing Confucianism, not Taoism and slandering Buddhism. The core of Confucianism is benevolence, which means kindness. Confucius said: If you are a benevolent man, you want to establish a person, and you want to achieve it. Others to do to you. Mencius said: Everyone has the heart of compassion; Everyone has the heart of shame and evil; Everyone has the heart of respect; Everyone has the heart of right and wrong. Compassion, benevolence; Shame, righteousness; Respect, courtesy; Right and wrong, wisdom. “Yi” said: the heaven is healthy, and the gentleman is self-improvement; The terrain is Kun, and the gentleman carries things with virtue. Confucianism guides us to be kind and generous. Taoism said it clearly, the old man said: Good as water. Water li wan wu and indisputable, at everyone’s objective and dislikes, so several Tao. Residence, good land; Heart, good yuan; Harmony, good benevolence; Words, good faith; Politics, good governance; Things, good energy; Action, good time. The only thing is to fight, so there is nothing.. The cultivation of personality, besides self-transcendence of spiritual realm, Taoism also emphasizes practicing in life, that is, three thousand good deeds. That is to say, monks must accumulate great kindness and minor kindness, do good deeds in the world, and complete three thousand good deeds. Only by doing good deeds in daily life can the merits be fulfilled, which can be seen from the Taoist tenet. Both Confucianism and Taoism emphasize people’s kindness and good deeds. However, the goodness of Confucianism pays attention to the accession to the WTO, while the goodness of Taoism pays attention to the freedom of the soul, which is not tired by foreign things. However, the essence of Confucianism and Taoism to goodness is consistent. The rules and disciplines of Buddhism, such as the few precepts and the few virtues it advocates, are good deeds. The goodness here is to benefit others and the public first, so as to achieve the most fundamental self-interest. The essence of goodness is to treat all living beings and benefit all things. When it comes to Buddhism, I think of a dialogue that can bring harmony. Han Shan asked: people slander me for no reason, bully me, insult me, laugh at me, measure me, despise me, hate me, scold me, what can I do now? Pick up the answer: you may as well endure him, let him, let him, fear him, follow him, respect him, tolerate him, do his best, you will see him again in a few years. Han Shan asked: how to avoid evil entanglement? Picked up and said: Maitreya’s sayings express clearly: Lao Zhuo wears his coat, is full in the belly of the light meal, makes up for the cold, and everything goes well; Some people scold Lao Zhuo, Lao Zhuo only says good, some people beat Lao Zhu, lao Zhuo fell asleep; Someone spit Lao Zhuo, let him do it, I also save energy, he also has no trouble; In this way, Polo mi is Miao Zhongbao, if you know this news, worry road can’t? People are not weak in heart, but poor in morality. They are determined to practice and always endure in Taoism. Kindness and sincerity are a kind of spirit that positive and beautiful hearts need, and Confucianism, Taoism and Buddhism carry this spirit. Adhering to this spirit, the society is bound to be harmonious. Obviously, Confucianism, Taoism and Buddhism can lead people to good. The world is muddy, the belief is lacking, and there is no lack of blindness in the Daze, which inevitably leads to the dishomophonic tone of devaluing Confucianism, not Taoism and slandering Buddhism. It is colorful and not chaotic; The sky above the head is blue and the heart is dedicated to kindness. Confucianism, Taoism and Buddhism have given people enlightenment for a long time. Why don’t we choose kindness and do it? [Editor in charge: Man Tree]] Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the 30th year of my WeChat era The year before last, my eunuch planned to buy a smartphone for him on his birthday. The main purpose was to teach them how to play WeChat, and let them… Comments on the Chinese version of “worry-free grocery store” Everyone moves towards a better life through his own efforts. 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Bursts

Chaos opened my eyes, and the light from the curtain seam made me smile slightly. After working for many days, it’s hard to sleep till the dawn. I opened the quilt, slowly turned over and got out of bed, put on soft and warm cotton slippers, and walked towards the living room with my support rubbing. When I just entered the hall, I suddenly felt the fragrance of the tea refreshing. A large amount of sunlight poured into the room through the window, and tiny dust floated lazily under the dry and warm sunshine; Several light green teas were dressed in crystal glass, on the thick heaps of tea deposited at the bottom of the Cup, the stubborn green stalks were erected in twos and threes, and the mist from the mouth of the cup was nowhere to touch the light fragrance of the whole living room. On the sofa beside the tea table, Dad was leafing through the newspaper. He is also a rare person at leisure. I stood at the door of the living room, staring at this leisurely and comfortable scene blankly, and could not help sighing gently: what a Chinese painting, what a Chinese feeling. Nowadays, our country is like a flying dragon, rushing to the other side of the dream tirelessly; People in the country work day and night to earn money in order to have a generous material life. My father is such a busy man. He shuttled back and forth in the communication field, walking flexibly between the upper and lower classes. When he returned home, he simply lay on the bed, letting his tired body and mind empty for a while. As a daughter, I see it in my eyes and feel painful in my heart. It is a rare holiday and a rare piece of Purity. I immersed myself in this Jingning picture scroll in front of me and smiled slightly, but I would like to thank that cup of quiet tea. Tea, inherited from ancient China till now, is an indispensable confidant and good friend in people’s life. It comforts the injured soul with slight sweetness, and soothes the manic temperament with lasting elegance. A cup of tea expresses the ancient Chinese culture, and it is also noisy and prosperous, quiet and harmonious. The memory of childhood is like the silhouette in my mind, which is in a disunity and only contains static images. Among these various pictures, there is a picture of tea. It seemed to be a play in childhood, touching a bag of tea on the windowsill. The green reflective bag, the vigorous writing brush tea character, a chrysanthemum on the packaging bag, and the silk tea scattered on the ground. Since I could remember, my parents loved drinking tea. With the prosperity of their families, my parents gradually brought tea with water, and the tea they drank became more and more valuable. My mother once told me that when I was still a baby, my parents never drank tea because they had no spare money and luxury on drinks. I hugged my mother dearly, frowned tightly and couldn’t say a word. However, my mother held me aside as if she didn’t care. She picked up a cup of tea and took a sip of tea and said, “isn’t your father and I drinking tea every day now? Conditions getting better. Yes, with the good family background, the variety and quality of tea have been improved day by day. When I grew up, those memories about tea were carried in a superficial show. The better the days passed, the higher the status of father in the company. From time to time, some people will send precious tea. The most impressive one is Peony hydrangea, which is the favorite tea of parents at that time. On festivals and festivals, relatives and friends gathered together to talk about tea products. Parents would also say a few words with high eyebrows, talking about some tea as if they were showing off. And the more affluent relatives, knowing their parents’ preferences, will also give us good tea from home. In my memory, that period was beautiful and joyful, and it seemed that there were pure happy smiles in the air. With the growth of age, there are more and more trivial matters in the heart, and the pressure and responsibility to bear are also coming day by day. I lost my preference and attention to tea, only blindly perfunctory all kinds of reality. There are more and more famous teas at home. Even if parents bring tea with water every day, there will always be a whole box of tea left in the next year and mixed in a batch of fresh tea. On that day, my father brought a box of different tea. The slightly flat tea box made people doubt the quality of the tea, because those delicate tea boxes were always thick and elegant, and they were opened, there are two barrels of fine tea quietly placed on the shiny yellow silk inside. See forget vulgar. However, this box is flat and small, which makes people doubt its content. We opened the box doubtfully and took out another wrapped hard object which was square and not very regular. On top of the package is the quaint faint yellow color, and the painting and landscape are printed dimly on it. The packaging is not sealed with tape like other food nowadays, but the surplus paper is folded at the back casually. Turn over the items and gently open the folded edge paper. There was another layer of black object wrapped by translucent tissue inside. At this time, we were all surprised when we unpacked it wholeheartedly, and we could see that it seemed to be a tea cake pressed together. After opening the tissue paper, a round tea cake with light shining slightly and pressed very neatly came into view. On the front of the tea cake, an eagle spreading its wings is carved concave-convex. My mother and I looked at each other and asked each other what kind of tea it was. Dad said aside: This is authentic Pu’er tea, which is very valuable. The longer it is stored, the more valuable it will be. Put it away quickly. We suddenly realized that we packed it well and stored it precious. From then on, the family will receive all kinds of Pu’er tea packaged in a variety of products intermittently, with rare tea being the most expensive. This kind of superior tea will be gradually forgotten. But I was reluctant to drink it, just storing it as something that could maintain and increase the value. Whether it is poor or rich, it is better to drink too much tea, or to drink less tea. Drinking tea has become the life interest of parents and many common people. No matter you are a successful person who knows everything everyday, or a common people who are idle or not, even if you are a domineering unemployed vagrant, even if your heart is floating, it is intended to be chaotic, the moment of light tea entrance, it will also become calm and happy, plain and detached. The charm of tea, the purity of tea, the fragrance of tea and the lightness of tea seem to come from the ancient Chinese culture, and also seem to shoulder the important task of detachment of Buddhism, which spreads in the world and comforts the restless people. [Editor in charge: Man Tree]] Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the 30th year of my WeChat era The year before last, my eunuch planned to buy a smartphone for him on his birthday. The main purpose was to teach them how to play WeChat, and let them… Comments on the Chinese version of “worry-free grocery store” Everyone moves towards a better life through his own efforts. The answer to the consultation letter is just encouraging an existing… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 14, 2018) January 14, 2018: Today, the temperature in Wujiang is relatively warm, not as cold as a few days ago. 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Capriccio

Tonight, it was not late at night that I had already sat in my study, opened the iPad, and began to forget all the tiredness of my day and buried myself deeply in my sky. Turn on the radio and broadcast Jiang Yuheng’s CD, quietly intoxicated in his soft singing. I like his songs, because his songs are soft enough. In these days, ideological trends have sprung up, and many poems have been written, no matter whether they are written well or not, whether they are appropriate or not, or whether they are inconsistent or not, or the meaning of words is thin, just scatter your own voice in those specious words. Then, I will release them regardless of, but suffer those blogs that click on my poems. Fortunately, blogs on the Internet all have a heart of compassion. My so-called nonsense is rarely trampled by people. In fact, I don’t know what poetry is, nor what poetry and painting are. I just want to express my heart between the lines one by one, but take it to words, so I have to make up a few words with simple words, hoping to relieve my mood, it can also make people understand the effect. Every time I read other people’s exquisite proses and poems, and then look at my own works, I always feel ashamed of myself. Occasionally, there will be the idea of whether to stop publishing articles to avoid showing ugliness. Every night, when everything gradually settles down, when the night covers the Earth, the mood will begin to wander around. Sometimes, chasing others’ works on the Internet, chewing each blog’s mood carefully, listening to each sad person’s heart silently, as if they became their bosom friend online. Some articles deeply touched the wounds in my heart, and it seemed that I had entered the world of that blog. When I felt his (her) joys and sorrows, I would be moved to tears. The reason why I wander in this virtual network world is nothing more than that my mood has nowhere to be delivered, and I also hope to find my bosom friend, so I have to face “strange faces” one by one “, telling your least known mood. Therefore, just in the gentle singing, the loneliness of silence, the loneliness of wind and rain, the constant thoughts came out on the Internet with the tapping on the keyboard. Occasionally, I saw the full moon and the lack of stars, but I couldn’t improve my lonely mood. Later, I found that the sun and the moon rose, the day day and night, the Earth was still rotating, and what remained unchanged was My unwillingness and sorrow. It turned out that it was myself who closed the door in my heart and didn’t let people approach or pry. I firmly believe that when every blog is on a whim or when inspiration emerges, all the words I know will flow through my heart smoothly, into my mind, and then turn into touching sentences, words that affect readers’ resonance, a poem and a prose were born in this way. However, my character Library is always a little too small. Therefore, there were only a few lines of words coming and going in the written articles, which were dyed dim by my gloomy world. Perhaps, it is because that I have never really enjoyed the surrounding scenery, experienced the fragrance of flowers, listened to the pleasant sounds of birds, appreciated the greatness and beauty of nature, and gained insight into the world, so after all, we can only write stories about ourselves, inner sadness and extreme opinions. I believe that words can peel a person’s heart naked and present it in others’ eyes. I also believe that diaries can express the grievances in real life and let myself open my heart, all unhappiness will disappear in the space with the pouring of words. Therefore, I have been clinging to creation and writing. But recently, it has been gradually discovered that this mentality seems to disgrace all blogs, all writers, the spirit of creation and those exquisite words. Because my starting point seems to be inclined, not for creation, not for poetry. Am I wrong? I don’t know. Just like tonight, I wrote extravagant nonsense, but I still hoped to tell the world what I thought in my heart. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the 30th year of my WeChat era The year before last, my eunuch planned to buy a smartphone for him on his birthday. The main purpose was to teach them how to play WeChat, and let them… Comments on the Chinese version of “worry-free grocery store” Everyone moves towards a better life through his own efforts. 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Because

[Edit press]: I always pretend to be strong like this. I am really strong in their eyes. But that is just a superficial strength. I didn’t even shed a tear in front of him. Although I would cry when I was alone, I just couldn’t let him see my weakness. Is it true that I walked so heavily because I was too sensible? Is it true that I have to miss a lot of good things because I am too sensible? Is it true that I am too sensible to expect helplessness in my life? He said I was really too sensible, but why did he finally leave me. Although it doesn’t matter whether you are around or not, I don’t understand why such a sensible person also brings burden. I always think too much for others in this way, ignoring my inner feelings. It is also because he is sensible and willing to bury his pain in his heart. He would rather let him walk away with ease than tell him how sad his leaving made me. I always pretend to be strong like this. I am really strong in their eyes. But that is just a superficial strength. I didn’t even shed a tear in front of him. Although I would cry when I was alone, I just couldn’t let him see my weakness. Do you make mistakes even if you are too sensible? I think yes. At least I made a mistake to myself. Seeing the people I like leave with my best friend, how many times are really heartbreaking, but what else can I do in front of friendship? Only leave quietly sensible. In those gloomy days, no one could feel my pain. But I still survived. What else can I do? Calm down, still feel very wronged. In order not to let them feel sad, I did the most cruel thing to myself. He left with a smile, and then tears fell on the unhealed wound in his heart. Isn’t it the same? Yes, the difficulties that are more painful than life and death also need to be overcome. Life is like this. I recalled those pains in this way. Because of my own understanding, I suffered the injuries. If I was not so sensible at that time, what would I look like now? Maybe you still need to be sensible. You will suffer losses and help others. Is it true that I am also so sensible to my parents? I don’t know. Maybe I am not a child who saves parents worry. They have done too much for me, but they don’t know that I have also paid a lot for them. Those tears shed for them are also a lot, I am a loving child. I have made countless wonderful assumptions about their old age, and also expressed my filial piety with the most determined heart. However, I am still too sensible to tell them the psychological burden I bear, but I am demanding and cruel to myself again and again. Born as a sentimental child, I couldn’t tell my parents the depression in my heart. I could only let him bear the consequences more and more deeply. Because I am too sensible, I have to give up a lot. Because I am indeed a sensible child. I hope that my sensible will make the people around me happy and safe. [Editor in charge: Yuehua]] Like (prose editor: Ke Er) the 30th year of my WeChat era The year before last, my eunuch planned to buy a smartphone for him on his birthday. The main purpose was to teach them how to play WeChat, and let them… Comments on the Chinese version of “worry-free grocery store” Everyone moves towards a better life through his own efforts. The answer to the consultation letter is just encouraging an existing… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 14, 2018) January 14, 2018: Today, the temperature in Wujiang is relatively warm, not as cold as a few days ago. Yesterday and Today, Wu Jiang’s… Be a person who never stops growing up Teacher Lily coughed with a strong nasal tone when she was in yoga class. Maybe it’s uncomfortable, she has less demonstration action today,… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 13, 2018) January 13, 2018: Yesterday, my sister and nephew Little David didn’t come to the Dongwan village of jinjiaba where my mother and I stayed temporarily,… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 12, 2018) January 12, 2018: The day before yesterday, I said, “my mother will go to Kunshan tomorrow.” However, yesterday, my mother did not go to Kunshan…

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I think I have psychological problems. I hope to solve some problems. I hope my family and I can live a better life. From today on, my 12-year-old daughter and I decided to learn some psychology every day and write down our experiences, which are all about recording my experiences of growing up with my daughter! I remember the ancient Greek philosopher Socrates said a famous saying: know yourself. Lao Tzu also said in “moral classics”: people who know people are wise, and people who know themselves are wise. Recently, some problems have been bothering my daughter. I also kept learning and reading books, and wanted to find a solution to the problem. Today, I am lucky to see Mr. Shui Miao’s “compulsory psychology for smart women”, which is just like a sweet spring and Chicken Soup for the soul, I would like to express my thanks here. Zhang Yu in her daughter’s class is a very outgoing girl. She and her daughter are friends. But two people also have conflicts. Recently, my daughter was upset because Zhang Yu often said that her body was not good-looking. I always told my daughter that people are lovely not because of beauty, but because they are lovely. Hearing this, my daughter did not touch her heart, and she was still confused. Today, after reading the first chapter “present a real you”, my daughter proposed to take out a notebook and write down the advantages and disadvantages of each of us. Let’s start looking for shortcomings. My daughter admits that her body is not good-looking, she treats others uncourteously occasionally, she is jealous of others occasionally, she likes to talk more occasionally, she is not neat enough, she has a heavy mind, she likes to care about it, she is unhappy, she is easy, there are 15 articles in total, including self-abasement, conceit, irregular work and rest time, and unwillingness to sleep. After finishing my daughter’s shortcomings, I began to write about my shortcomings. Unexpectedly, I found that I had all my daughter’s shortcomings except that my body was not good-looking, and I had two more than my daughter, narrow-minded, love Losing Small Faces. I have to believe that I have problems with my daughter according to The Mirror rule. My daughter and I started to look for advantages again. My daughter has many advantages, such as singing, dancing, playing the piano, hosting a program, acting a drama, learning well, speaking well, having strong organizational ability, being able to cook, being able to finish homework independently, being able to go to school independently, after school, wash simple clothes. Occasionally washing bowls, planning (when doing homework), being steady, not flustered, generous, ambitious, love watching news, caring about national affairs, participating in public welfare activities, caring, environmental protection, care for small animals, don’t spend money arbitrarily, manage money, have a sense of justice, dare to take responsibility, attach importance to friendship, be able to deal with problems, etc. Speaking of my daughter’s advantages, I am very familiar with them. My daughter said, this is because I often talk about these with others. After writing my daughter’s advantages, I found that my daughter has many advantages. However, my daughter and I don’t have many advantages. I think my own advantages are diligence and frugality, and tenacity in doing things. The advantages of my daughter are much more than mine. After writing it down like this, my daughter and I were surprised to find that we had never noticed that she had so many advantages. My daughter said to me happily, then will you treat me better in the future? Write down my advantages often. In this way, you will be happy and I will not feel inferior. Obviously, my daughter didn’t know herself before. Through today’s study, we are trying to present a true self. Through today’s study, I began to reflect: why do we in life always narrow down one’s advantages and magnify the disadvantages infinitely? If I can find out the advantages of my daughter in time, maybe I will eliminate the damage that unnecessary inferiority brings to my daughter, so as to avoid the constraint of troubles on children’s lives as much as possible. Let children live a more comfortable life. The child said that the brothers and sisters of relatives were not willing to come to my home, and they always felt that the family atmosphere in our family was not good enough, and everyone lived very tired. I didn’t know until today that in the eyes of these children, my daughter was restricted a lot at home and was not mentally free. My daughter can tell me this because of the good parent-child relationship we have learned and built together today. I hope we can learn some psychology every day and grow up together. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the 30th year of my WeChat era The year before last, my eunuch planned to buy a smartphone for him on his birthday. The main purpose was to teach them how to play WeChat, and let them… Comments on the Chinese version of “worry-free grocery store” Everyone moves towards a better life through his own efforts. The answer to the consultation letter is just encouraging an existing… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 14, 2018) January 14, 2018: Today, the temperature in Wujiang is relatively warm, not as cold as a few days ago. Yesterday and Today, Wu Jiang’s… Be a person who never stops growing up Teacher Lily coughed with a strong nasal tone when she was in yoga class. Maybe it’s uncomfortable, she has less demonstration action today,… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 13, 2018) January 13, 2018: Yesterday, my sister and nephew Little David didn’t come to the Dongwan village of jinjiaba where my mother and I stayed temporarily,… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 12, 2018) January 12, 2018: The day before yesterday, I said, “my mother will go to Kunshan tomorrow.” However, yesterday, my mother did not go to Kunshan…