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Although parents are eager to look forward to their children and women, no one wants to see their children immerse themselves in homework and practice their internal skills all day long. Although hard work is useful for success, it is too much for primary school students. Every time I told my daughter about my experience of going to school when I was a child: no heavy schoolwork burden, no various kinds of homework, no rich fitness equipment but colorful extracurricular life, my daughter envied her eyes. My daughter’s school is beautiful and tidy, and all kinds of fitness equipment are available, but children seldom play here during the week. Only on weekends can they have a good time under the leadership of adults. Today’s children are really pitiful. No matter schools or families are one-sided pursuit of knowledge accumulation, ignoring the education of children’s personality shaping and good behavior habits, which leads to the psychological fragility of most students, fear of frustration. Although most parents think that their children’s schoolwork burden is too heavy, they are acting as accomplices of teachers subconsciously, because children are working so hard that they cannot let their children lose at the starting line; although teachers also realize that children are overwhelmed, who dares to take the loss of their own interests as the price to relieve the burden of children, because performance is the absolute principle. Therefore, the evaluation system based on test scores will not change the current situation of children’s learning without changing. As the saying goes, san bai liu shi xing, the very best. That is to say, everyone has the value and significance of his own existence and has a place to use. In this era of taking test scores as the only evaluation mechanism, as parents, we should relieve our children timely, do not blindly stare at their children’s scores, be good at discovering their bright spots, and encourage them more, let children have confidence under the circumstances beyond their reach, realize their own strengths and grow up happily with sunshine. Because experienced parents all know that it is not as long as a prize if the number is over ten. As parents, we should broaden the scale of evaluating children with scores, and make children understand that gold shines wherever it is. Looking at the worry and self-accusation when the child fails to get a high score, we should tolerate and guide her in time, and reflect on our educational philosophy in time: whether the expectation of the child is too high has caused her psychological pressure. Because countless violent incidents in colleges and universities have proved that it is useless for children to get higher scores even if their physical and mental health is unhealthy. Children should be given more room to grow up. In the stage of compulsory education, students should be taught according to their aptitude, and education should focus on cultivating students’ psychological adaptability. Conditions should be created to change their spoiled, psychologically fragile, fear of setbacks in the fragile heart; To cultivate their ability to withstand setbacks and the spirit of hard work, is that they have a strong body, healthy psychology to the society. Facing children’s inability to learn, I just want to say: do your best, do not seek the best, only wish for better. Like (prose editor: Yue ran) the 30th year of my WeChat era The year before last, my eunuch planned to buy a smartphone for him on his birthday. The main purpose was to teach them how to play WeChat, and let them… Comments on the Chinese version of “worry-free grocery store” Everyone moves towards a better life through his own efforts. The answer to the consultation letter is just encouraging an existing… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 14, 2018) January 14, 2018: Today, the temperature in Wujiang is relatively warm, not as cold as a few days ago. Yesterday and Today, Wu Jiang’s… Be a person who never stops growing up Teacher Lily coughed with a strong nasal tone when she was in yoga class. Maybe it’s uncomfortable, she has less demonstration action today,… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 13, 2018) January 13, 2018: Yesterday, my sister and nephew Little David didn’t come to the Dongwan village of jinjiaba where my mother and I stayed temporarily,… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 12, 2018) January 12, 2018: The day before yesterday, I said, “my mother will go to Kunshan tomorrow.” However, yesterday, my mother did not go to Kunshan…