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[Introduction] having been engaged in education for many years, I often encounter such a situation: parents who make trouble with teachers for a little thing, to be honest, your parents make trouble with teachers like this, in the end, it will only hurt your own children. It means that your parents’ quality is not good to quarrel with teachers for a little thing. On that day, I had dinner with my colleagues in the middle school in the education post. When talking about his education for his son, he said that his son suffered losses only in Chinese, if your child has spare time in learning, you must let him read more extra-curricular books. When he was just in junior high school, there were relatively few courses, so you must hurry up to read. When you want to read in senior high school, you have no time to read, what’s more, classics and so on are all required. If you have studied in primary school and junior high school, it will be much easier in senior high school. Your son is suffering this loss, however, he was still the best middle school. Later, although he was admitted to a fairly good university, it would be better if his Chinese were better. When I arrived at that university, because of my relatively wide interpersonal relationship, I had already taken care of the teacher who taught my son and let him be the monitor, which built a good education platform for him. But my son couldn’t get used to it at first, so he often called back to complain and said, “Dad, don’t force me to be the monitor. It’s too hard. I can’t stand it. He said to his son: I have built a good education platform for you. Whether you can make good use of it depends entirely on yourself. If you are willing to be mediocre, you will give up. If you want to gain something, you must work hard. After listening to his words, my son decided to stick to it for a while and try it again. Half a semester passed, and he felt that his work was getting more and more smooth and his confidence was also enhanced. He competed to be the president of the student union in his sophomore year, he felt that his ability to handle affairs was getting stronger and stronger. Now he has joined the party in his senior year, and he has got all the certificates he should get. Now he still wants to learn more skills. He told his son that as long as you have confidence, I will always support you fully. As he said, all his son’s qualifications in college are the hard Intangible assets for him to enter the society! If he was not given the opportunity to be a monitor, he would not have a series of qualifications such as the president of the student union. Therefore, seeing that a child has potential to dig, we must create conditions for him and exercise his ability. Boys are too fond of playing in primary schools to show these abilities, and these talents will gradually appear in middle schools, especially boys. Speaking of this, I think that every time the school starts, some parents are very polite to teachers, especially on Teacher’s Day, a bunch of flowers, a little heart, and sometimes even treat (of course not for parents), the purpose is to ask teachers to take care of their children more. In fact, they want to build a good education platform for their children so that their children can have more opportunities to exercise. Having been engaged in education for many years, I often encounter such a situation: parents who make trouble with teachers for a little thing, to be honest, your parents make trouble with teachers like this, in the end, it will only hurt your own children. If you make trouble with your teacher for a little thing, it means that your parents’ quality is not good, children nurtured in such an environment will not be much better. Which teacher dares to take care of your children? If it is not your own bad luck to make a mess one day, it is better to leave the children alone, as long as your child does not affect other children. We said that it would not be a square without rules, and no one dared to take care of the child. Isn’t it just hurting the child. Some parents have to transfer their children to other schools at last because of their fierce troubles. If you think about it, why do you want to transfer to another school halfway? This first leaves people doubts; moreover, teachers will talk about your children when they go out to attend classes or something. In this way, no matter where your children go to school, no teacher dares to take care of your children even for parents like you, you are hurting the child. So I said, even if you feel uncomfortable about the teacher’s practice, you can communicate with the teacher and never confront the teacher, Otherwise, it will only harm your own children. I remember that when I was in primary school, there was a boy in the class. Because of a small matter, the parents scolded the teacher and said to the teacher, “My child is not in charge of you, as long as nothing happens. This was not the best. Later on, no teacher dared to touch the child, so he was allowed to grow up freely. Finally, he dropped out of school before he graduated from primary school. Last year, I also saw some parents scolding teachers for their children when posting online. It is true that we are all children now, and they are all treasures in our hands. However, as a parent, you spoil your children so that your children can’t stand a little setback, do you love children or harm them? Think for yourself! It is impossible for a person to have a smooth life. He can’t stand any setbacks at school. How can he enter the society in the future. Build a good education platform for children, train their abilities, and enable them to enter the society better in the future. Building a good education platform does not mean that you need to flatter teachers, but you need to communicate more with teachers, find out your children’s strengths and exercise them in time. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the 30th year of my WeChat era The year before last, my eunuch planned to buy a smartphone for him on his birthday. The main purpose was to teach them how to play WeChat, and let them… Comments on the Chinese version of “worry-free grocery store” Everyone moves towards a better life through his own efforts. The answer to the consultation letter is just encouraging an existing… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 14, 2018) January 14, 2018: Today, the temperature in Wujiang is relatively warm, not as cold as a few days ago. 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