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Understand Love

[Introduction] one autumn, I took my husband to the countryside. Standing in pieces of golden rice fields, I pointed at the heavy rice and asked my husband, why did they bend down one by one? Sometimes in our family, we would quarrel and fight for some trifles every time. At last, I was the one who lowered his head first. The husband passed it alone, and the three sisters were all used to him. They were used to being alone and didn’t know how to make people. There was a conflict between them. He could not talk to me for several days. At last, I couldn’t beat him. I didn’t care about his indifference or the pride of that little woman. I lowered my head first. My husband, who had found enough honor, gave me a gift and held hands happily. I comforted myself that it doesn’t matter, only mature rice will bend down. If I was as impulsive as my husband and didn’t understand, I had to bend down first. Maybe our marriage ship had already run into the rocks in the Cold War and Pique between them and forgot. I know how to bend down, which shows that I know better than my husband how to manage love in marriage, and I am more mature than my husband. This kind of self-comfort gradually loses its effectiveness when the number of times increases. After all, bending over and over again will cause lumbar muscle strain! Moreover, in marriage, if one side is always bending and the other side is always keeping its waist straight, such marriage is also unbalanced. Only when two people know how to bend down can such a marriage be more flexible. Moreover, my bending over and over again has made my husband feel superior in his heart. He thinks that every time I give in is because my love for him is far more than his love for me. Therefore, I can go down into the dust. One autumn, I took my husband to the countryside. Standing in pieces of golden rice fields, I pointed at the heavy rice and asked my husband, why did they bend down one by one? My husband said to me in a tone of lesson: because they are mature! I repeated what he said meaningfully, yes, because they are mature! Then I told a paragraph that Li Yong, a famous TV host, said when he was interviewed. He said that every time he quarreled with his wife, the one who took the initiative to admit his mistake was him. When the reporter asked him whether he felt ashamed, Li Yong said this sentence: mature rice will bend down! Li Yong took the initiative to admit his mistake to his wife because he positioned himself as a mature man, and it was not a shameful thing for a mature man to bend down, on the contrary, it is tolerance and generosity, respect for marriage and consideration and tolerance for wife. On that day, my husband and I took a photo with the golden rice field as the background. When this photo was developed, I specially asked the staff to add such a sentence: people who know love will bend down. This group photo was put on our bedside table. For several times, I found my husband’s eyes were very thoughtful. Before long, we had some troubles. It could be said that I was deliberately looking for something. Although I didn’t expect my husband to change sex so quickly, I decided that I would stick to it for two more days this time to see her husband’s reaction before deciding when to bend down. Every night, I would take the group photo on the bedside table to look at it for a long time, then sighed and said, looking at my husband bitterly. A few days later, when I got off work, my husband sent me a text message to invite you to dinner tonight, OK? I read that message repeatedly, and the great joy spread all over my body. My husband finally understood all my thoughts, and he was going to learn to be a person who knew how to bend down. Hi! 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