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I think I have psychological problems. I hope to solve some problems. I hope my family and I can live a better life. From today on, my 12-year-old daughter and I decided to learn some psychology every day and write down our experiences, which are all about recording my experiences of growing up with my daughter! I remember the ancient Greek philosopher Socrates said a famous saying: know yourself. Lao Tzu also said in “moral classics”: people who know people are wise, and people who know themselves are wise. Recently, some problems have been bothering my daughter. I also kept learning and reading books, and wanted to find a solution to the problem. Today, I am lucky to see Mr. Shui Miao’s “compulsory psychology for smart women”, which is just like a sweet spring and Chicken Soup for the soul, I would like to express my thanks here. Zhang Yu in her daughter’s class is a very outgoing girl. She and her daughter are friends. But two people also have conflicts. Recently, my daughter was upset because Zhang Yu often said that her body was not good-looking. I always told my daughter that people are lovely not because of beauty, but because they are lovely. Hearing this, my daughter did not touch her heart, and she was still confused. Today, after reading the first chapter “present a real you”, my daughter proposed to take out a notebook and write down the advantages and disadvantages of each of us. Let’s start looking for shortcomings. My daughter admits that her body is not good-looking, she treats others uncourteously occasionally, she is jealous of others occasionally, she likes to talk more occasionally, she is not neat enough, she has a heavy mind, she likes to care about it, she is unhappy, she is easy, there are 15 articles in total, including self-abasement, conceit, irregular work and rest time, and unwillingness to sleep. After finishing my daughter’s shortcomings, I began to write about my shortcomings. Unexpectedly, I found that I had all my daughter’s shortcomings except that my body was not good-looking, and I had two more than my daughter, narrow-minded, love Losing Small Faces. I have to believe that I have problems with my daughter according to The Mirror rule. My daughter and I started to look for advantages again. My daughter has many advantages, such as singing, dancing, playing the piano, hosting a program, acting a drama, learning well, speaking well, having strong organizational ability, being able to cook, being able to finish homework independently, being able to go to school independently, after school, wash simple clothes. Occasionally washing bowls, planning (when doing homework), being steady, not flustered, generous, ambitious, love watching news, caring about national affairs, participating in public welfare activities, caring, environmental protection, care for small animals, don’t spend money arbitrarily, manage money, have a sense of justice, dare to take responsibility, attach importance to friendship, be able to deal with problems, etc. Speaking of my daughter’s advantages, I am very familiar with them. My daughter said, this is because I often talk about these with others. After writing my daughter’s advantages, I found that my daughter has many advantages. However, my daughter and I don’t have many advantages. I think my own advantages are diligence and frugality, and tenacity in doing things. The advantages of my daughter are much more than mine. After writing it down like this, my daughter and I were surprised to find that we had never noticed that she had so many advantages. My daughter said to me happily, then will you treat me better in the future? Write down my advantages often. In this way, you will be happy and I will not feel inferior. Obviously, my daughter didn’t know herself before. Through today’s study, we are trying to present a true self. Through today’s study, I began to reflect: why do we in life always narrow down one’s advantages and magnify the disadvantages infinitely? If I can find out the advantages of my daughter in time, maybe I will eliminate the damage that unnecessary inferiority brings to my daughter, so as to avoid the constraint of troubles on children’s lives as much as possible. Let children live a more comfortable life. The child said that the brothers and sisters of relatives were not willing to come to my home, and they always felt that the family atmosphere in our family was not good enough, and everyone lived very tired. I didn’t know until today that in the eyes of these children, my daughter was restricted a lot at home and was not mentally free. My daughter can tell me this because of the good parent-child relationship we have learned and built together today. I hope we can learn some psychology every day and grow up together. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the 30th year of my WeChat era The year before last, my eunuch planned to buy a smartphone for him on his birthday. The main purpose was to teach them how to play WeChat, and let them… Comments on the Chinese version of “worry-free grocery store” Everyone moves towards a better life through his own efforts. The answer to the consultation letter is just encouraging an existing… An emotional diary of a Christian (January 14, 2018) January 14, 2018: Today, the temperature in Wujiang is relatively warm, not as cold as a few days ago. 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