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[Introduction] you said that your husband’s mental injury caused by material deficiency cannot be compensated. Your husband’s parents have less than one tenth of the kindness to your husband’s birth and nurturing than that of ordinary families, do you really want you to repay his parents’ kindness of giving birth to him with one tenth of your support?

Filial piety to elders is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation, but today I saw such an article on the Internet, “I don’t let my husband be filial to his parents, is there anything wrong with me? If you don’t read the content of the article, you will feel uncomfortable when you read the topic. Everyone has his own parents, and parents have the kindness to themselves, how can they not be filial to them? Filial piety to parents is a matter of course. Besides, you also have an old day. Do you want your children to follow your example and not be filial to you in the future? It is said that parents are the first teachers of children, and children will be unconsciously influenced by such thoughts sooner or later under the guidance of your mother’s thoughts, I think it is definitely not what you want to see that your children will not be filial to themselves in the future! Now let’s take a look at the point stated in the article: You said that your husband should send money to his parents proportionally when he pays salary every month. When he just got married, he felt normal because of his young age, your husband said it was his duty to show filial piety to his parents, and now he increasingly thinks it is your husband’s foolish filial piety. He is not allowed to give money to his parents, saying it is not worthy of his treating his parents so well. From this point of view, your husband is indeed a filial person, and he doesn’t forget the kindness of his parents. We say that the kindness of dripping water should be reported by Yongquan. Crows all have the feeling of feedbac, what’s more, the kindness of parents? Why not be filial to your parents? You said that his parents were the standard urban poor, and you didn’t have a meal after eating. You said that why he was so poor and had to give birth to your husband, so you didn’t consider the feeling of the child. According to what you said, the poor can not be respected by others, and the poor should not give birth to children. Giving birth to children is harmful to children, and children can not be filial to poor parents, otherwise, it will bring bad luck to yourself, and you will become poor. But it is impossible for everyone in the world to be rich. There are always poor people. Is it true that the poor have no right to have a baby, so they can only be looked down upon forever? The poor are also human beings, and they also have their own self-esteem. In terms of rights, everyone should be equal. Are your own parents must be rich, then why do you find a son from a poor family as your husband? Since he married the son of the poor, he should love his family and be filial to his poor parents. You said that your husband’s childhood was unfortunate, his youth was depressed, and his adult frustration were all caused by his family circumstances. He said that his husband in his childhood was always in rags and had no toys and snacks, so he could only watch others drooling. Imagine that when we were young, we were short of materials, which one didn’t come here like this, how many children of other families had snack toys, and which one was dressed well every day like now. This is the reason of the times. Where can we blame parents? Which parent doesn’t want to be richer at home and can give their children a good family environment! Can it be said that there is a good environment? So don’t blame his poor family. We can choose to live a positive and strong life, but we can’t choose our own birth. You say that when someone goes to college, he or she wants to open a house and live together, but his husband has to worry about the monthly living expenses; After graduating from college, others have parents to arrange decent jobs, but his husband had to go north to Guangzhou like a wild dog to work and beg for food. According to what you said, going to college is to talk about love, not to study. If your husband is really such a playboy, would you still choose him? It is also because your husband can work-study like this in college that he can set foot on the big family of society and have the capital to strive for his ideal. I just want to say that you are too discontent. Such a good husband is a kind of sorrow under the guidance of a woman like you. You said that your husband’s mental injury caused by lack of material can’t be made up. Your husband’s parents have less than of the kindness to your husband’s birth and nurturing than that of ordinary families, do you really want you to repay his parents’ kindness of giving birth to him with one tenth of your support? I think your thoughts are wrong. Which parent do you say doesn’t love his children and neither Tiger poison nor child, let alone parents treat their children? It is in such a family environment that your husband went to college, didn’t he? Children of the poor are ambitious. Maybe if your husband is the son of a rich family, he may not be as good as he is now? Children from rich families grew up in a superior environment. Although they have jobs arranged by their parents, they also need him to have this ability. Of course, there are many excellent children from the rich family. After all, the edification of the environment he has received since his childhood also gives him the feeling of being superior to others. It is a valuable treasure that the children of the poor can grow up on their own, because he knows better that this is a hard-won happiness. Do you have any hesitation till now? Filial piety to parents and elders is a matter of course. It is the same regardless of poverty and wealth. The kindness of parents is the truest and purest emotion in the world. What else is greater than the parents’ love for children? If you love him, you should love his family, his parents, and respect them. This is not a foolish filial piety. Don’t wait until your parents are gone and regret that you have not repaid your kindness. I often go home to see when I am free. What my parents need is not necessarily money and material, but the satisfaction of seeing the happiness of their children and grandchildren.

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