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I remember that my mother often told me: when you were a little older, you saw teacher Zhou going to school and passing by my door every day. Do you want to ask teacher whether I am good at school? Then teacher Zhou will ask your mother to help you buy a schoolbag, and go to school when you grow up! At that time, I was looking forward to growing up quickly every day so that I could go to school with my elder brothers and sisters carrying schoolbags. At that time, I felt that it was the most beautiful thing to go to school. Now I am very moved to see the children in poor areas on the Internet, the pairs of eyes full of thirst for knowledge, some working hard in a very difficult environment for learning, especially the excellent children from poor families, even the children of the migrant workers who came to work outside are also very strong. Many of them are excellent in study and have strong self-management ability. Perhaps it is because the children of the poor have already taken charge of their families, and their parents are both dual workers, no one takes care of the children, so the children learn to wash and cook at an early age, and their life independence is very strong. However, many of our local children are expensive babies. They are really dressed and stretched out their hands to eat. They are really not good except for learning, and even some of them are poor in learning. Because of his dependence, his wings lacked the opportunity to exercise and could not fly. But how did this cause? When the child wanted to eat with spoon and chopsticks for the first time, we were afraid that he would scatter rice everywhere to save trouble. At first, the child insisted on coming by himself, but after several times, he also got used to being fed by someone; When the child was sweeping the floor for the first time, the child picked up the broom happily, but we would say beside him: the baby is dirty, you can’t clean it either. He took off the broom in the child’s hand and let the child stay obediently. The child gradually became accustomed to it. In the child’s impression, Labor would be dirty and the child did not need labor, labor is an adult’s business. One day when the child grows older, he will not be happy if you ask him to do this, nor will he be happy if you ask him to do that. For him, no matter what you ask him to do, he will not be happy, who can you blame for shouting at you for being too lazy to die? Family education is worth pondering. As soon as I entered the school gate this morning, I saw a lot of people around me from a long distance. I didn’t know what happened. When I entered, I saw a little girl cocking like a fish, and her mother was hitting her ass with a ruler, what if you don’t go to school like this? But the child still cried desperately while holding mother’s legs tightly with both hands, calling me to ask for mother. I want mother, and I don’t want to go to school. This doesn’t work. If a mother wants to have a mother’s business, children will always go to school. You see, other children are going to school happily. Let’s go, and we will also go to the classroom. A teacher persuaded me patiently, but the child still hugged my mother’s legs tightly. The more fierce the child was, the tighter the hug was. He just shouted that I wanted my mother, and I didn’t want to go to school. Later, Teacher REN grabbed him and dragged him into the classroom. However, he still cried incessantly, which made the class unable to have normal classes. It has been the third week since the beginning of school, and the child hasn’t got used to it yet. He still refuses to go to school and cries every day. The child’s personality is too strong, only because the condition is too good, some people don’t want to go to school, while some people want to go to school but don’t. Going to school seems to be an adult’s business, asking him to go to school. I went to the office to talk about the child with my colleague, who said that the child lived in her house, and the family loved her so much that everything depended on her, at that time, when I was in kindergarten, I cried every day. Once I cried, my parents took him back and didn’t let her go. Now I’m in grade one, I can’t let her go, but in the last two weeks, when the child cried, his grandfather took the child home and asked the child: did the teacher scold you? You said this kind of family education is good. I heard that the mother of the child hit the child today, and my colleague was so surprised that she said, “her mother has never hit her since she was a child, and she always depends on the child’s temperament. This is the extreme of education. Everything is in accordance with children. Now children just don’t want to go to school and rely on their mother at home. Parents now know that they hate iron and steel, and start to do it, but it is not too late to start to discipline them well, the child is only in the first grade, and the child has a strong plasticity of personality. But discipline needs a positive guidance, otherwise it will only backfire. You see how the child’s parents said to the child’s head teacher, he saw the child refused to go to school, crying every day to ask the head teacher, teacher, you scold my child’s wave? When I went home, I also asked my child what the teacher said to you today. Did you scold you? Is the teacher cruel to you? You said that the whole family was afraid that the teacher abused their children, and adults were not worried that the children were in school, which made the children even reluctant to go to school. Therefore, everything has its cause, and children cannot be blamed alone. What should I worry about? With so many children at school, can teachers treat your children badly? As a teacher, which teacher doesn’t want the students he teaches to be excellent? The excellence of students is his own glory! Education is the common responsibility of school, family and society, but family education is the first. The influence of family environment on children is very profound. Children have been influenced by such family environment since childhood, A good environment has a good influence on children, so parents are the first teachers of children. Parents should set an example for themselves, and teaching by example is more important than teaching by words. I hope that I can create a good family education environment for my children, and no more similar children will appear. There are such special cases every year. Maybe my wish is just a beautiful dream, but I believe it is good to have such a wish.

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