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My burden was heavy and my shoulder was very painful. I wandered among the crowd with my face on my shoulder. A song “middle class” written by Taiwan singer Zheng Zhihua resonates with many friends. It is me who sings this song! The housing price is high, it is not livable, there is no happiness, and the work pressure is high, so I have to go to work. The city makes me happy and worry. My friend Nannan thinks that the biggest factor causing the trend of white-collar returning home is the high housing price. The emergence of land Kings one by one highlights the domineering of real estate developers, and gradually drives young people including white-collar workers out of the city. Do you want to live in a big city or go back to the second and third tier cities? Some white-collar workers have already had their own realistic choices. However, his friend Lu Qi said that this was the jungle rule of the city: Houses in the city would be more and more expensive, and prices would be higher and higher, which was a curve of rising constantly. If you don’t want to leave, you have to keep up with this rhythm. Many friends think they should give themselves a break. My friend Kankan said: Many people have lived in big cities for decades just for an illusory face; In the second and third tier cities, they can have houses, cars and tickets. Don’t let yourself suffer a lot just for the sake of returning home. In this world, what matters is not where you stand, but where you are moving. My friends sighed with emotion. Obviously, the life path of many white-collar workers has begun to lean to second-tier and third-tier cities. My friend Benban said that the spread of white-collar class from big cities to second-tier and third-tier cities after was a rational choice for them. At the same time, it can also promote the development of social economy and culture in developing regions, which is conducive to the balance of regional development and conforms to the general trend of social development. But there are also some people worried that the rise of the wave of talents returning home will make the first-tier metropolises face the end of demographic dividend. It is said: What is the stamina and motivation of a city’s development? Of course is people. If a city pushes out the innovation power with high housing prices, it will be natural for its competitiveness to decline and decline. In the view of more friends, this kind of worry may be too early. Although homesickness spreads, there are only a few white-collar workers who really leave big cities. A survey of urban white-collar workers found that for small and medium-sized cities, 34.7% of white-collar workers worry most about less opportunities, while 34.0% worry most about starting from scratch, 20.8% of the people worry most about their children losing the opportunity to receive a good education. In fact, whether white-collar workers return home or not is only a matter of personal choice. Living in big cities may not always be humble, and living in small cities may not always be comfortable. Just as a friend said, if the society develops, it will definitely be abnormal if we still swarm everywhere. Social development is becoming more and more diversified, and personal choices should also be more and more diversified. The white collars who choose to return home are exactly the embodiment of this diversification. I believe they will be responsible for themselves. A friend who lives in a big city sighed in such a situation: what I hide is my vulnerability, just like a trimmed tree, I hid those branches that I didn’t want to see with heartbreaking, avoiding being hurt again. Something happened, lost some happiness, and had more sorrow for life, leaving only helplessness. Completely sad, with the exhaustion of the heart, landing, landing, landing. At the same time, he realized himself quickly, because he was a person who loved him very much. He didn’t allow himself to be unhappy, and he would try every means to excuse himself. He read the last posthumous works of master Sheng Yan, emotional management wisdom and the happiness of putting down in the cultural reading channel of Sina. There is a saying in the book that there is no wisdom if he cannot put down himself, if you can’t let others go, there is no mercy. Everyone should know how to let yourself go and others go. Don’t waste your life on the corner. The road of life is very long and spacious, so how can you know that it is a blessing if you lose your horse. These words were very useful, which made him understand that what was entangled in his heart should be put down. We should learn to be merciful and treat ourselves the same. To be merciful to oneself is to use wisdom to deal with your own affairs. Don’t be so easy to get angry, move your emotions, and don’t be emotional. However, mercy to others means that no matter whether others are reasonable or unreasonable, we should forgive them. Just as we also hope others can forgive us, we should compare our hearts with our hearts. If we can lead by example, or put ourselves in the position of understanding others, our hatred will gradually decrease. When I was thinking about these phenomena of high housing prices, my heart gradually became clear and broad, a kind of relaxed and comfortable after the burden was relieved, and a kind of sunshine after the clouds were scattered. A friend wrote. In fact, it is really uncomfortable to be angry for these things. It seems that many brain cells will die. No wonder I feel that my brain is a little slow these days. I think how naive and shallow I am. Ha ha, it’s time to put it down. If the housing price is high, just don’t buy it. Putting it down means happiness is indeed a panacea. Only the heart has nothing to do with it, and everything can be seen and thought clearly, only when it can be put down can the Willow be dark and bright. Right! If you face the sun, there will be no shadow. Put down what should be put down and pursue what you deserve. The world is vast. Of course, if we let it go, it doesn’t mean we are cowardice. It’s just that we don’t want to spend time and efforts on people and things that we disdain. It’s really not worth it. We might as well use these thoughts and time to do more meaningful things to improve ourselves. In this way, we have a clear conscience, as long as we do ourselves well.

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